Do You Show Your True Self in Cyberspace?

Mark Sanford, Ph.D.
3 min readJul 2, 2022

Use anonymity to your advantage

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“Individuals with increased inferiority feelings have a higher tendency toward self-concealment, which in turn results in an increase in loneliness and a decrease in happiness.”

Here is a provocative quote that inspires a sense of familiarity and tempts me to spill the beans. Do essay writers on Medium conceal themselves, or do they express their truths with abandon? Or do most do both?

I don’t pretend to know, but the issue around self-disclosure and the term ‘self-concealment’ is fascinating. Self-concealment is a psychological construct defined as “a predisposition to actively conceal personal information that one perceives as distressing or harmful from others. “

Limits on Self Concealment

I think the Internet has had a liberating effect on the silent majority, especially on the self-concealers. This includes those who would rather hide our light under a bushel than express our truths into the world.

Writing online and consuming content online tends to permit more disclosure due to anonymity, ease of hiding one’s identity, one-sided interaction, and the use of mediating communications via apps…

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Mark Sanford, Ph.D.
Mark Sanford, Ph.D.

Written by Mark Sanford, Ph.D.

Ph.D. sociology. I help those working on personal development to attain self-respect and self-affirmation.https://medium.com/@sanfmark/membership